In past three weeks of me visiting the
sewing centre I haven’t seen her in centre. She sat on the first bench. She was
quietly sitting and doing work with utmost sincerity. When approached she
introduced herself as Anjana. She told that she is 40 years old and has lived
all her in Jammu and recently came to Delhi to be with her husband and get a
proper medical treatment for her problem. When asked about her health issue she
didn’t say much. Her body language was enough to conclude that she doesn’t feel
comfortable in talking about her problem. When asked about her life back home she
said she was married at the age of 26 to a man 5 years elder to her. After
marriage she went to her husbands family house where she lived with her in-laws
and four unmarried sister in laws. She finished her graduation before getting
married and aspired to study further but due to her husband’s responsibility
towards his sisters, he couldn’t support her further education. When she was
talking about major events of her life she seemed very calm and showed no signs
of regrets of any kind. She further added, in order to earn a better income her
husband took up a Government job and gets transferred very often; she never got
to live with him for a long period of time. This is the first time she has been
living with her husband. When the question of how she found Maitri’s sewing
centre came up, she smiled and replied that she didn’t like living in Delhi and
had a lot of free time and to utilize the free time she was looking for some
classes. And she came across Maitri’s sewing centre in sector-7 R K Puram and
enrolled for a diploma. She added that she completed her diploma with the
highest rank in the batch. No wonder she is a good and sincere student, her
dedication towards her work was the most noticeable thing about her. She still
comes to the centre to learn advance designing and she also uses the centre
sewing machines to complete her orders. Anjana is proudly utilizing her diploma
degree by taking stitching orders for the ladies in her neighborhood. She mentioned
that on an average she earns rupees 2,000 to 2,500 from these orders. Her
husband and in-laws doesn’t like that she earns from stitching suits and
dresses for other ladies but it is her hobby that’s why they have made peace
with it, and let her work. She plans to continue earning from sewing when she
goes back to Jammu after her treatment.
Myesha Khan
Christ University Bengaluru
Intern @ Maitri
Myesha Khan
Christ University Bengaluru
Intern @ Maitri